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How to Ask for a Blow Job? – Try Alternative Ways Without Sounding Selfish

There’s just something bizarrely pleasurable about a blow job, and yet, it feels very selfish to ask for it outright.

To be fair, it does feel like a job. It is one of those things where only you will get all the pleasure, and your partner will do all the work. However, don’t be under the impression that you don’t deserve it! The taboo around it makes it quite a sensitive topic, and we understand your apprehension about it. What if she is grossed out? What if she denies harshly? What if you come across as an incredibly selfish person?

Yes, the risk is always there but the trick is to ask properly. There are ways in which you could ask politely and romantically as opposed to selfishly. Intrigued? Well, we will walk you through the options you can explore:

How to Ask for a Blow Job?

1. Be very soft and sensual

Our tone is capable of showcasing immense sexuality. Use your sexiest tone while you are making out, and maybe just whisper it into her ear. How about a blow job, baby? Do you know what would make this even better? A BJ! These are regular ways of speaking, but when you do it in your sensual tone, she will find it hard to say no.

2. Ask causally in conversation

If you are extremely scared about her repulsion to blow jobs, you could ask her in casual conversation when you aren’t making out. While flirting or while speaking about sex, you can casually mention that you would love a blow job. If she doesn’t want to do it, she will clearly let you know. If she doesn’t mind it, she will tell you that as well. Some will just give you a hint – almost like teasing you. Take it and wait.

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3. Try a pick-up line

Sometimes being cheesy works. You could ask for it with the help of a pick-up line or something cheesy. This way, if you see that she is repelled, you can laugh it off as a joke.

4. Don’t be crude

Being crude is the worst thing you can do! You will sound selfish, and she will think you are a jerk. Even if she was kind of interested earlier, she will lose it if you cross the line.

Pro tips:

  1. If she says no, she means no! Respect it and back off. It is horrible to keep pursuing her for something after she has clearly expressed her disinterest.
  2. Do not get mad or harsh while making out or during sex just because she refused. Forcing her is not going to do you any good.
  3. Be kind during sex. Give! Make her feel pleasure like she never did before. Maybe in a few days, she will come around herself.pleasure
  4. Offer suggestions such as the use of a lube and how much easier it makes the blow job. This may change her mind.
  5. Understand that going down there and doing things orally is not palatable at all and can be very disgusting. Plus, it is almost a one-way thing where only you get the pleasure.
  6. Communication is key. Talk about it, discuss, and figure out solutions on your own. We can only give you general tips, but only you understand your girl. So, pick a way to ask that you are positive will convince her.

It is a sensitive topic, so we request you to approach it with care especially if you don’t want to end up sleeping on the couch for being a selfish jerk. All the best!

 

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